Make (most) containers start as non-root

This makes all containers (except mautrix-telegram and
mautrix-whatsapp), start as a non-root user.

We do this, because we don't trust some of the images.
In any case, we'd rather not trust ALL images and avoid giving
`root` access at all. We can't be sure they would drop privileges
or what they might do before they do it.

Because Postfix doesn't support running as non-root,
it had to be replaced by an Exim mail server.

The matrix-nginx-proxy nginx container image is patched up
(by replacing its main configuration) so that it can work as non-root.
It seems like there's no other good image that we can use and that is up-to-date
(https://hub.docker.com/r/nginxinc/nginx-unprivileged is outdated).

Likewise for riot-web (https://hub.docker.com/r/bubuntux/riot-web/),
we patch it up ourselves when starting (replacing the main nginx
configuration).
Ideally, it would be fixed upstream so we can simplify.

roles/matrix-nginx-proxy/templates/nginx/conf.d/nginx-http.conf.j2

@@ -0,0 +1,5 @@
+# The default is aligned to the CPU's cache size,
+# which can sometimes be too low to handle our 2 vhosts (Synapse and Riot).
+#
+# Thus, we ensure a larger bucket size value is used.
+server_names_hash_bucket_size 64;